How putting yourself first impacts your life?

3 reasons why you should always put yourself first

1. You are the only person that you can make sure 100% that you can count on. 

I know that this sounds a little bit pessimistic but it is ultimately the truth. Everyone takes care of themselves first and you should too. What you need to do is to come to peace that anyone can betray you at any moment but you have yourself as support.

2. Put yourself first in order to heal.

When we have traumas stored in our bodies it is important to start treating them. To understand them we have to be more aware of ourselves and of our actions. We have to look out for how we react to certain situations and how we treat other people. This way we acknowledge everything that has become hard for us.

3. When you give yourself what you desire, you will attract the same from other people. 

Everyone will treat you how they see you treat yourself. If people see that you disrespect yourself by allowing other people to do so, they will disrespect you as well. If they see that you love yourself and set boundaries, they will feel attracted to show you this love and respect. You become magnetic when you give yourself what you desire.

What happens when you put yourself first?

When you start putting yourself first not only does your perspective of the world change but also the perspective that everyone has of you. You become more magnetic because your vibration changes, You are now seeing the world with love because by putting yourself first you are showing that you love yourself.

This energy shift helps relationships become healthier because expectations are removed. We don’t ask the other person to fulfill many needs that we might have. And we don’t feel abandoned and unloved when they don’t do what we thought they were supposed to. There is a halt to taking things personally and a general growth of self-worth and self-esteem.