the reason you shouldn’t seek to make your days more enjoyable
May 23, 2023We all want a life full of perfectly enjoyable moments. But sometimes that is not what we get. I want to tie back to perfectionism and our need to control our every moment, though. When we don’t get that perfect moment, how do we act? How do we respond? It may be that we are constantly trying to make every moment enjoyable and make every moment perfect. But doesn’t that take away from the actual enjoyment of our moments? whispers… it does Now, we are trying to enjoy a sunny day in the place we live in and we run…
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